Aftercare (yes, both for doms and subs!), is an important part of healthy BDSM.Д«elow is everything you need to know about BDSM aftercare, so that you and your partner can both get what you need from the experience. Remember: BDSM can be emotionally and physically draining. That literally means taking care of one another, emotionally and sometimes physically, after sex depending on what type of play occurred. 'In the terms of agreement, safety and consensus are key,' Sklyer says. After that, they'll co-create a play script or ritual that works for both of them, she explains. Then, they'll make up a game plan (think: who will be dominant and who will be submissive), which includes talking about their needs, desires, and boundaries, and agree on a safe word. How does it work, though? Well, couples typically will start by having a conversation about the type of BDSM they'd like to try. 'It's mostly about sensations-sensory play and or power play,' explains Jenni Skyler, PhD, of The Intimacy Institute and resident sexologist for Adam and Eve. Yes, BDSM stands for bondage discipline and sadomasochism, but it isn't the violent and harmful sort of kink that pop culture and society have made it out to be. Before we get into BDSM aftercare, let's set the record straight about the sex practice as a whole.

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